The way God sees him.

"The LORD doesn't see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart." - 1 Samuel 16:7b NLT

God doesn't see Owen as deformed, because He MADE him that way.

God doesn't see Owen as ugly, funny looking, or weird; He sees him as BEAUTIFUL.

And that's the way everyone should see him - beautiful, made in the image of God, and deserving of a family. Because that's they way he really is.